This author somehow managed to live through this true story without ending up in an alley talking to a bottle of cheap wine, as so many others have. But he does admit, having found true love once in his lifetime, was wonderful when it was right. As he has always believed very firmly, love is heaven or hell, with no in between. When it is good, it is wonderful. When it is bad, it is truly some sort of hell. He further believes that one must actually find true love before they can treasure or hate it. That being the case, when looking for love, prepare yourself to find heaven or hell. For it will truly be, one or the other.