Kindly note that even though the Lebanese people live in a small geographical area and are of a limited population size, the religious discrimination and wars persist after thousands of years. The hate culture still dominates the country, while in the USA we see that immigrants from different countries with different languages, races, religions, and cultures managed to unite and merge together in one great nation over a period of three hundred years only, even though they had wars against the British, French, and the Mexicans. Also, they suffered from a civil war and several assassinations of American presidents. But all of these events did not prevent them from establishing the greatest and best country in the world. The idea of the American dream succeeded in providing happiness, security, freedom, and success to the people.
Also maybe we will understand the difference between the Jewish people and the crusaders. The crusaders were Europeans. That is why they returned to Europe later. But the Jewish tribes lived in the Middle East. At a certain point, they were not strong enough and lost their ground. Today they are strong enough to keep their ground.
Another problem in our attitudes about the Middle East is the way some Arabs consider the USA and the American presence in the Middle East unwelcome. Kindly bear with me and assume that the American people decide next week that they want to keep their sons and daughters safe at home. So the USA decides to take out of the Middle East all their bases and military forces. Also the White House indicates that America will not interfere in the Middle East anymore.
I have no doubt at all that within a few months there will be a new map for the countries in the Middle East. Somalia and Iraq will be nice, good places to live in compared to what most of the countries and cities in the Middle East are expected to be in the absence of the USA military and political presence.