HOW TO READ ANY MAN'S MIND
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“I can’t believe the guy turned out to be such a jerk! Why didn’t I see it coming? The signs were right there in front on me.”
How many times have you said something similar to yourself? If you’re anything like me, the answer is probably more times than you care to remember, or admit. I didn’t understand how I could possibly date that many losers. What was I doing wrong? Why did I keep repeating the same mistake over and over and over again? They all looked like such nice guys. I couldn’t figure it out.
Until one day, someone (my mother of all people) ever so politely pointed out that I didn’t just attract these men; I voluntarily supplied them with my phone numbers—work, home, cell, my fax number for crying out loud! Countless numbers of heart-wrenching, bleed-all-over-myself disappointments may finally have paid off. How? The inner voice inside of me let out a scream that went something like, “Wake up, you idiot! If you opened your eyes and ears, you could have avoided all of this pain and heartache.”
From the minute a man enters a room, everything about him is telling you something. His face alone is a virtual neon marquee of a hidden agenda. But sometimes it’s a feeling that unlocks the key to a corner of their soul. By utilizing both forms of data, we can literally enter a man’s mind. Impossible? Absolutely not. You already own the ability, whether you are conscious of it or not. How many times have you described yourself as having “a gut feeling,” or “one of those hunches,” about a certain someone, a certain situation? How many times have you said, “I trusted him from the minute I laid eyes on him,” or, “I knew he was nothing but a liar,” and been proven right? Likewise, haven’t we all been subjected to somebody reacting to us for no apparent reason? Why does a person consciously choose not to call someone back or hire him or her for the job? Oftentimes the answer stems from an illogical explanation such as, “I just had a weird feeling about that guy. I don’t know . . . something wasn’t right.” They just knew.
The majority of us read people every day. The trouble is, we don’t know how to translate what’s behind the patterns of behavior and use it to our advantage. Once you learn to define, clarify, and access this process at will, not only will you be able to pick up on the thoughts behind the words and interpret what is really being said but more importantly, what is not being said. Wouldn’t it be nice to know if the man who said he’d call you later, meant it? Wouldn’t it be nice to know if the man who said he loved you last night wasn’t cheating on you today? Wouldn’t it be nice to know if the person you hired wasn’t going to turn into a flake once he got the job?
Whether you’re considering dating, marrying, hiring, or working for someone, it’s imperative that you learn how to distinguish between your allies and your adversaries. By avoiding the pitfalls that lead to bad decision making, you can not only enhance your relationships but also possibly save your life. Rapists don’t wear signs. Muggers and murderers don’t hand out business cards. Child molesters don’t advertise. Every hour, an estimated 75 women are raped in the
Predictability is actually the glue that bonds us together as human beings. Random acts of violence, referred to as occurring “out of the blue,” or “all of sudden,” as if they were impossible to predict, are in reality the outcome of cause and effect, a process easily identifiable if (and that’s a big if) you know what to look for. You will literally learn to look a man straight in the eye and, before he utters a single word, predict his intentions, be they harmful or not.
Not only that, but if you can read other people you can read how they read you. You can alter your
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Rapists don’t wear signs. Muggers and murderers don’t hand out business cards. Child molesters don’t advertise. Within every twenty-four hours, approximately 75 women in the
From the minute a man enters a room, his body transforms into a virtual neon sign of his thoughts, feelings and intentions. Whether during an electrifying first date, a job interview, or a business negotiation, you can seize the most strategic position by accessing a man’s mind. Distinguish between voluntary and involuntary expressions, especially those that reveal emotions, deceptions, and aspects of physical and mental health. Is he a bit down or downright depressed? Angry or livid? Flirting or into a long-term relationship? A liar or a lover?
Evaluate a man quickly and efficiently by learning to speak his emotional language, building rapport, mirroring his moods and movements, and asking the right questions. You will literally learn to look a man straight in the eye, and before he utters a single word, know exactly where he is coming from. And, more importantly, where he is going.
This book is not just a glossary of people’s characteristics, but a step-by-step guide through the complex subtleties of the human psyche. How to Read Any Man’s Mind is a practical, mind-opening, potentially life-changing, life-saving, exploration into the science of self.
About the Author
Servet Hasan is the author of numerous articles that have appeared in such publications as East/West Magazine, San Francisco Parent and the Los Angeles Times, where she worked for almost a decade. Her thirst for spiritual knowledge led her to the far corners of the world, beyond the Himalayas, into Tibet, and India, where she studied Theosophy and Theology with the great masters. Born in
After her soul mate passed away, the now forty-something Ms. Hasan suddenly found herself back in the dating game. After hearing of her friends’ disastrous, often life-threatening encounters, and experiencing firsthand the horror of being tricked, manipulated and taken advantage of by men, she decided to take control. The result: How to Read Any Man’s Mind. The book was written with and for her teenage daughter, in the hopes that it could improve every aspect of her life-and quite possibly save it.
Servet Hasan is also the author of Exercises for the Mind, a practical guide to fulfilling one’s dreams.