The Elements of Real Success

What is the real meaning of success? Some say success is getting rich; others say success is having a good job, wife and kids. I believe we all have our own meaning of success. So who decides when we are successful and what do we gain from it. Success is within us our inner happiness. The minute we start looking around for recognition for our success the minute we loose all hope of gaining it. Every day we wake up with our Whole day ahead us. Some plan their day, some do whatever comes to their mind whilst others do nothing at all. As much as religion preaches as not to judge people still do. So why do people judge? And what does it have to do with success? We are all coming from somewhere but it’s our actions that define us. We all play a very important role to society. Some believe there more successful than others, because they have allot more to show for, and this makes them more important. When we as people start to believe this we lose all the real meaning of life. We start to form a society where people are valued on how much they’ve got in the bank account. This limits how much people believe in success. What if some people just didn’t want allot in life and they were very happy with what they’ve got. Shouldn’t they be valued the same as someone who has everything? Aren’t they as successful and important as anyone else? Sadly we live in a world of class, you have lower class, middle class and upper class. Our lives are built on these three sectors, and without choice children are born into one of these classes every day. This automatically plays a major role on their prospective of life. A lower class person is programmed to believe most Good things in life will never come their way. They are programed no u can’t have that, Stop dreaming, it’s impossible just get on with it, work hard, and get a good job maybe one day you can be a manager. They keep the same thought process for the rest of their lives. So how far do they go, how much can they achieve, is all effected by what they been programed to believe. Middle class have a similar background the difference is they are under far more pressure because they have something to lose. Systematically this creates the elution that they have more to prove. On the other hand the rich are more in control over their life’s. So they are under no pressure, they are known as the bosses! They have a different thought process, they believe anythings possible. Reach for the stars, u can only go higher and the higher u go, the better the view will get. This is why they do not settle for nothing but the best. This is the problem society has been facing for years the rich are getting richer! The poor feel the pain! Living to maintain! With no one to blame. Maybe we need to start blaming our selfs. They say life is what u make it, we need to start taking responsibility for our own actions, no one can help u you better than you can help your self. Trusting your self is worth more than a million promises. first of all you have to ask you self, what are u living for? What drives you everyday? Is it something you love? Or is it because you have to in order to survive. Some people are quite happy, to wake up under pressure everyday, it is were they can perform their best. They like to take orders because is less work, and they don’t have to think for them self. The result of this is that, they are controlled by others, who they rely on to survive. Automatically they believe in others far more than them self. After a while of this thought process they start to go low in self-esteem and become complacent towards self development.