Toby Visits Mommy

About the Book

Toby sees his mother once a week for only a few hours.  On these days, Laurel, Toby’s grown up friend, picks him up and drives him to the center for mothers in recovery to see his mom.  Toby’s not sure what center for recovery means.  In fact, Toby’s not sure about a lot of things.  He’s not sure how he will feel when he sees his mom.  He’s not sure what they might talk about.  He’s not even sure when he’s going to be able to live with her again.  But what Toby does know is that for today, during the next few hours, he gets to spend time with his mom

Some chldren only see their parent/parents during  scheduled visitations mandated by the court, Child and Family Services, appointed guardians,  or even the prison system. 

The importance of “Toby Visits Mommy” is to acknowledge a child’s experience during a visit with a parent/parents; to support them as they cope with feelings of uncertainty, guilt, sadness, lonilness, abandonment, fear, anger, and joy.

“Toby Visit’s Mommy” may provide opportunities for children to talk about their experiences whether similar or different with an adult in their life becaues he/she may recognize some aspects of Toby's experiences which may evoke strong emotions

Toby Visits Mommy will also allow parents to see a visit from the child’s perspective.  To stress the importance of the child’s visit without disruption from friends or other people.  To validate that a child will strive for attention in any way, even if it’s negative attention.  (I.e. in “Toby Visits Mommy” Toby throws a truck to get his mom’s attention).

 This book will be beneficial for Therapists, Counselors, CFS Workers, Treatment Centers, Teachers, Parents, foster parents, court workers, etc.

About the Author

Enid is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in Drama and Expressive Art Therapy. During the past nine years she has worked with children under ten years old and their families, parents exploring new ways of connecting with their children, mothers hoping to increase their bonds with their infants, and families in recovery. 

 During this time Enid has facilitated parenting groups for mothers in Recovery, play therapy for their children,  individualized parenting sessions, and support/coaching during their visits with their children.  She has witnessed both challenging and beautiful moments.

 "Toby Visits Mommy" is a story based on visits Enid has witnessed, discussions during parenting groups and individual conversations with mothers and their children.

For more information view Enid's website at:

www.enidsolomon.com