It wasn’t even 7AM. The household was just beginning to come alive. The granddaughters in our home (where they usually spent the weekend with us) were just getting up. I heard the knock on the back door and opened the door. There stood my son, Vic, looking very serious. I noticed his car pulled onto the lawn close to the door. “Get everybody up, now.” He choked out.
When we had all gathered in the living room, Vic seated himself on the sofa next to his daughters, Dawn and Lynn (ages 10 and 14). He put his big hand over theirs and seriously said, “I hoped never to have this conversation with you. But now it’s necessary.”
We knew this must be something terribly serious. My mind raced trying to think what it might be. Emotion welled up in all of us as Vic tearfully said that Brenda, (wife, mom, and daughter-in-law,) had met somebody on the Internet and didn’t want to be married to him anymore. The girls looked on numbly, tears rolling down their cheeks.
Vic said that it looked so serious that he felt he couldn’t avoid telling us what was happening. He assured the girls that their mother still loved them. After we had all shed tears together, we all stood in a close circle, arms around each other and prayed. If ever there was help from heaven it was needed this morning!
Brenda with her boyfriend pulled into our driveway. My husband, Harry, was working in the yard and saw them arrive. Dawn was sitting in the back seat. Harry blew her a kiss and she smiled and blew one back. Brenda came to the door and I started talking with her just as Vic arrived. She told him she had come to pick up Lynn. He told her Lynn wasn’t going, that Lynn said she didn’t want to go.
Without a word Brenda walked back to her car and got in and pulled the car into the driveway at the side of our house and used her cell phone. I knew she was calling the police because she had threatened doing that if anyone would refuse to let her pick up the girls one time before.
Vic said the police couldn’t do anything because when he called them at the beginning of summer when Brenda refused to return the girls, they told Vic there was nothing they could do. He even went to the courthouse and talked to a judge. But there was no help until he was able to get his lawyer to begin the emergency relief that finally got the girls back after two weeks.
After a few minutes county police officers Mondini and Schick arrived and rang the doorbell. Before Harry could get up out of the chair to answer it and before Vic got to the door the police had banged on the door with a metal flashlight leaving scratch marks on the door. The two police officers talked to Vic and then to Brenda. They escorted Lynn out to talk to her mother and heard her tell her mother again that she didn’t want to go with her. After the police talked to Brenda and then to Vic they said Lynn had to go with her mother since her mother had custody of the girls. Vic told them she didn’t but they showed him papers Vic had signed. Vic said that was the financial information that he had to compile at the request of her attorney. The other document was the agreement they had been working on but was never finished or signed.
The officers told Brenda that she could either leave Lynn or take her, it was up to her. Lynn was close enough to her mo