Sex Is For Marriage

Introduction

This book is dedicated to God.  Without God I would not have made it through the time of abuse from people who just didn’t care.

This book was born out of frustration, anger, animosity, and from what I see as a once basically moral society to a ravaging out of control, sexually - oriented society.  In the long run if this sexual revolution is not halted, we will have a society that is so sick that it will never recover. 

This book might be a catharsis or a self - relief for allowing myself to become a victim of this sexual revolution.

Lawlessness is running rampart in today’s society.  The curses of AIDS, Herpes, teenage pregnancies, and crime at an all - time high, homosexuality, and people caring only about themselves are all the harvests that the society is reaping from God and going our own way.

Sin is lawlessness (I John 3: 4): This is a prophecy of Jesus for this era and because lawlessness [the breaking of God’s Ten (10) Commandments] will abound the love of many will grow cold.  I believe God left the 10 commandments to us as a foundation law that is to be used to show what the love of God and man was established or built upon.

This is a basic down to earth book about sex and what it should and should not be used for according to the purpose of God.

This book will try and clearly explain the purpose of sex, what part it plays in human beings lives and where sex should play its role in your life.  This book may be very controversial to some to others it will be good reading.

This book is for all people who are even thinking about having sex without being married.  It’s simple to read and may give you some insight or vision as to what sex was really created for and who created it.

Why should we save sex for marriage?  This beautiful act of consummation (coming together having sex); Why is it best to have sex in marriage?  First, you need to understand what sex is and what effects it has on your body, spirit, soul, mind, will, and emotions.  Then you need to know what marriage is and why God ordained it.  Most people think marriage is two (2) people coming together to say “I do”, its much, much more than that.  I am going to talk about sex and marriage and what God intended for sex and marriage.  Why should these two forces in life be together?

This act of sex in marriage is the ultimate act or should be the ultimate act of commitment and love.  The highest level of physical consummation is sex, so why should it not be special and sacred.

Do you know what the word sacred means?  Something that’s sacred is something that is regarded with respect and reverence and is held in high esteem.  Ask yourself.  Do you hold sex in high esteem enough to have that other person to respect you enough to get married before you have sex?  Whether we want to acknowledge it or not it’s still about RESPECT; don’t ever fool yourself.  If a person is constantly having sex with you without marrying you, he/she doesn’t respect you and they certainly don’t love you; they love what they are doing to you.  Genuine love thinks about the other person’s best interests.

I am not going to spend a lot of time in this book degrading women or men.  That’s not the purpose of this book.  Instead I want to uplift women and men to a level where they can say “I deserve the very best treatment from my man or woman in every area of life whether it is mentally, physically, financially, sexually, spiritually, and socially.”  Remember man is Body, Spirit, and Soul.  What affects your Soul (mind, will, and emotions) affects your body and spirit too.

Let’s face it, some women and men only want a sexual relationship.  Most of these people are saying, “Everyone is not meant to get married”.  If that is the case then God is saying everyone is not meant to have sex.

A.C. Green, a basketball player made a statement when he was with the Phoenix Suns playing basketball in 1994 said he wanted young people to hear a message: It is possible to wait.  Not everyone is doing it. - A. C. Green, Phoenix Suns, Basketball Player.

I applaud A.C. Green for taking a stand on this issue.  There are a lot of athletes that are now speaking out against fornication (Having sex before marriage).  Now we need to speak out even more.

Since God knows that we are human, if you have made the mistake of having sex before you are married ask God for his forgiveness and for his strength to not make that mistake again.  You can’t rid yourself of out - of - control lust spirits unless you have some help from God.  I’m not an expert on Sex but I am in a position to know that Sin cannot Win!

Sometimes I wonder why God would make such a pleasurable thing as sex and confine it to marriage.  I believe that because we are spiritual beings God knew that when two (2) people get together they become as one in the spirit whether you are married or not.  When you aren’t married and those spirits come together as one (1) they are of an evil nature and the spirits transfer to each other.  I believe that is why some people having sex without the blessings of marriage take on the spirit of each other.  No one can have sex without a piece of your soul being taken.