Introduction
to the Dynamic Activities
As mentioned in chapter I, research data support the view that, in order
to start a therapeutic process bringing about psychodynamic change, the patient
needs to be enabled to experience
his/her conflicting feelings with a sufficient
intensity. For this reason, the sooner this emotional experience takes place
with sufficient intensity and the dynamic process gets started, the briefer
psychotherapy will be. Activation
amounts to bringing about a sufficient
increase of the intensity with which the conflicting feelings are being experienced by the patient.
Since what we need is to activate the conflicting feelings,
represented as X in the Triangle of Self, and since these are kept
unconscious by the defenses D and by anxiety A, we need to alter
the complex balance existing among the three forces. It is certainly reasonable
to act on the D corner, so as to weaken defenses, and on the A corner, thus regulating the anxiety
loading the conflicting feelings. If, however, it were possible to act even on
the X corner with a direct
facilitation of emotional experiencing, we would actually be able to act on
all the three forces involved in the
maintenance of the conflict.
On the basis of these considerations, we will describe three main dynamic activities a therapist can
engage in: Defense Restructuring,
and Anxiety Regulation
–respectively addressing defenses and anxiety- and the activity addressing the
conflicting feelings, which we call Emotional
Maieutics. A first general description of the three dynamic
activities and of the corresponding attitudes and contributions of the
therapist concludes this chapter and will be the theme of the next three.
Defense
Restructuring (DA)
The
purpose of this dynamic activity is to weaken the patient’s defenses, which are
making a direct experience of the conflicting feelings impossible or
insufficiently intense. The therapist:
(1) concentrates on identifying all the
defenses, so as to be able to mirror them to the patient;
(2) follows the pathways enabling the
patient to drop or put aside his/her usual defenses.
While
restructuring the defenses, a therapist needs to be attentive and systematic,
so as not to omit to address every single defense which is being employed. A
sense of strategy and an ability to sustain confrontation may turn out useful
for this activity.
Emotional
Maieutics (XA)
The Oxford English dictionary defines “maieutic” as “pertaining to
intellectual midwifery, i.e. to the Socratic process of helping a person to
bring into full consciousness conceptions previously latent in his mind.” When
applied to maieutics as used in the context of E-STDP, however, this definition
can be paraphrased as follows: “pertaining to emotional midwifery, the process of helping a person to fully
experience emotions present in him/herself.” What a midwife (= maia, in Ancient Greek) does is to help
the mother to give birth, and to withstand the pain of delivery. The parallel
with what a therapist can do is not just metaphorical. Emotions are in fact
felt through the body and moving them out (in Latin e-movere means “move out” or “move from”) can indeed be painful.
Our culture is sometimes forgetful of this aspect of emotions and I am grateful
to Leigh McCullough for reminding me of this with her videorecorded cases. The
therapist:
(1) makes him/herself as much
emotionally available to the patient as s/he can, giving him/her a sense
of being connected;
(2) concentrates on the emotion that is
being experienced, mirroring