WHITE, BLACKS AND WHILACKS

Foreign Relations In my shadow book Never Marry Your Soul Mate (Amazon.com) I discussed how to objectively choose a mate and make a success of marriage. As the world has become a global neighborhood, this second book of the series will consider all universal relationships. These are unions between persons of differing races and nationalities. These types of relationships will also become more popular as persons broaden their horizons. Elena Petrova, a Russian woman wrote a book entitled, "How To Find And Marry A Girl Like Me", from what I have heard, the book is very popular in America. This is testimony to the fact that a lot of White American men in particular are interested in having long term relationships with foreign women; not necessarily Russian. I think Brazilian women are now the main attracters of White men. Then we have heard about European women falling in love with men from another major continent. In addition, in my country of Trinidad I have seen growing numbers of White foreign men with Trinidadian women. On a regional scale, some men from other Caribbean countries find our mixed women most desirable. A word to the wise is sufficient. When it comes to relating with foreign persons of the opposite sex many feel intimated. You may have met someone appealing from another country and not feel inclined to pursue the relationship for various reasons. One of the reasons may be fright on your part. Let us be honest, if you marry someone from another country and he or she is going to live in yours that could lead to a lot of anxiety. For the first 6 months of the marriage you may have to bear most of the strain until your spouse understands the “rhythm” of your country. If you are willing to make such a sacrifice; then it will take strength and courage to do so. This segment considers cultural variations in food, customs, clothing, language, beliefs and behaviors.