WIDOW-WIDOWER'S HELPER

So many decisions and all while I'm crying internally but seem to be mute on the outside! The family is gathered about me, but I suddenly feel so very alone. what is happening to my world? All the papers and requested information may be together, but usually it isn't. The list of papers and what you'll need is within this handbook listed for you. You are now the mate who is alone. Visitation, condolences, and funeral fly into your world. Finally they are over, but welcome to the group of people who are once again where you didn't want to be: among the singles in your circle of married friends. Widow-Widower's Helper shares the lessons Dr. Myrna Etheridge learned. Though there wasn't much help-during the time of her recovery from loss of a loved and Texan type husband-she garnered these insights. Some findings shocked her. For example: married friends do not want to deal with you. Married thirty years to your beloved mate, now you need a new circle of friends? Try not to be too surprised at anything, just smile. Choices on how to dress, what to do with multiple things, and what has to be dealt with legally are included. The author has endured every type of loss and was compelled to help you-for she found no help already recorded for a widow or widower. There is hope! What do you need to dwell on during the funeral? Search for one or two happy memories and cling to them. Share them. Your emotions may surprise you. Thank God, most true morticians are artists and your mate will look much better than when you last looked at your beloved! Don't worry! Friends come through with help when you need it. Your can be helped through the time of recovery or alerted in advance of your need as to what adjustments you may face after an accident or when an ill mate dowen't reco ver. Lifetimes have an end and we are forced to face it. Gain strength for living without the comfort of your mate. She wants you, the widow or widower, to be given sound guidelines to help during your time of adjustment. There are practical suggestions for handling auch things as address changes; updating bank accounts; insurance claime; credit card-in your name; and, getting yourself ready for unforeseen problems. You can find help and encouragement to stand alone. There is hope! The Widow-Widower's Helper book can be a sourcebook filled with resources, remembrances and restoration.