I Don’t Care What Mom Says, “Life Sucks”

Life is not fair. It’s not even just, nice or considerate. We diet but still remain unhealthy or unfit. We are good looking, but not that good. We cant seem to win to save ourselves and nothing is ever good enough. We don’t own our time and have become slaves to our work and schedules. If we have a moment it is swallowed by our children and their needs. We cannot enjoy a day anymore. We live in fear, in pain. Fear of losing our jobs, fear of losing our family, fear of losing our business, fear of our competition, fear of death, fear of living, or just fear. Life has become so chaotic that we are even in fear of missing a telephone call or email. My G_d. Think about this. We are so messed up that we are in fear of just being able to take some time for ourselves. Is it fear of ourselves, or is it fear of missing something from others; maybe both and then some. Time for our friends and family? Time just to waste on ourselves? We are truly slaves, servants or prisoners to our master called Life. We do not control our own destiny and certainly not our own happiness. We must go with the flow and if we recognize that Life = Problems and not some glorified pipe dream we were lead to believe that we would achieve, then Life takes new meaning and understanding. People, listen to me, Life is a bitch. Life is not about Miller time, clean living, good times, sex, drugs or rock-n-roll. Life is about miseries and troubles and how we deal with them allows us to either enjoy some moments or slowly die a tormented death.

I don’t look to blame anyone else for the problems and troubles that surround us while on the game board. It is what it is. In truth we are alone in Life. Don’t waste your time looking to blame Life´s evil empire for the harm they cause. The time and effort it takes to play the blame game only will slow you down and distract you. You will need to be at your best while on the game board. The distractions of others, the hatred you will feel towards them and the revenge you strongly desire to claim will only consume you and spit off further negativity. You will move backwards on the game board. This will require you to play longer and suffer more. Believe me when I tell you that if you allow hatred and contempt to fill your soul, it will. While you may not see it, others will. I am sure that you would only want to be around positive, winning people? Well so do others as they want to be around good and positive vibed people. Thus, your negative vibrations will only cause good players to run from you. Negativity will only attract negativity. Positivity creates more positivity. Look forward in Life and spend resources on achieving new and positive things. Don’t spend your limited time and resources in negativity. Move forward with your life and leave the past where it belongs-in the past. What you waste moving backwards you will not be able to make up.

There are times that change in our Life is a good thing. A refresher. However, do not believe that without a real change you will only be changing your location not your circumstances. Remember, I told you, the grass is NOT greener somewhere else. Just a different shade of green as we are looking thru false eyes.

Stress blinds us all or inflicts us with some type of temporary insanity. We get lost. We get desperate. We cant find help. If we open up to others those sons of a bitch only then back stab us and use our weaknesses or troubles against us. People only bring trouble. Yes we need people, but that doesn’t mean we have to talk to everyone, share our secrets, or let them into our lives. Walk slowly, pick your friends carefully, and if you don’t complicate your life you wont need to be so desperate as to have anything you will want to confess and discuss with those who will only later betray you. However, you cant simplify your life can you? Society is just not letting you. Business pressures are not allowing you. Competition demands you do more. Family pressures. Money troubles. The party never ends. You must make the change. You must break the pattern. You must simplify to exemplify.