Women Looking for a Man God couldn’t Find
“Commit thy works unto the LORD, and thy thoughts shall be established!” Proverbs 16:3
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Women any goals that you are trying to achieve with your husband or boyfriend always communicate with him to exchange information and ideas give advice and receive advice. The best part about a man’s words is that they expose his thoughts and desires; some of which are warning signs. After a man achieves his goal ladies you will see a big difference. His attitude will change from being encouraging to being discouraging. If a man is trying to discourage a woman, he starts finding fault with the way that you dress, and the way you wear your hair and make-up. If a man wants to encourage you; he will say “Emma or honey we going to be dealing with many professional businessmen so I want you to look your best for me. We need to dress professionally so we are going shopping tomorrow. Then you can be very sure he is the right man for you. If you take all you know and the advice that has been given to you whatever happens you won’t be surprised. Even when we do our best sometimes the business or the man or woman may fail us. But when we do our best we won’t be surprised at failure because we did what Jesus states in Matthew 26:41, “Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak,” and Matthew 7:15, “Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.” What I’m saying is that even with Jesus we fail and fall down; but we get back up again and keep pressing forward. David states in Psalm 37:24, “Though he fall, he shall not be utterly cast down: for the Lord upholdeth him with his hand.” Women one of the greatest dangers I believe today for women to finding the right man for them is fear, doubting themselves and a lack of trust, temptation and not having enough patience. James 1: 2, 3, 4, “My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations; Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience. But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.” Ladies don’t make the mistake of not letting patience work for you. Temptation can override your patience. The reason I know this along with (Gail) and a few other women I know how temptation and lust over powered their patience. They thought the best way to test the man was in the bedroom; that was a big mistake. A man should be off limits to the bedroom at least six months to a year; and if he starts to question you concerning the bedroom then it is time for you to push him to the max. Ask him about his past; his last relationship or marriage; his last job and his hopes for the future. Tell him to be straight up with what he wants from you other than sex. Ladies I rest my case; this book is based more on my Biblical experience and worldly life with women. These Bible scriptures come from different versions and translations of the Bible. I love my family of the fifty years of marriage to Emma. The only fault is since I became a believer in God, Lord Jesus Christ, Emma always wants me to be the strong one even if I have to give in to the weak one.
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The information in this book is just another way of looking at situations in marriages and relationships; how a woman chooses a man; the dangers that lead to committing suicide; Biblical guidance for believers and non-believers; this book can be used to help women from becoming a victim of abuse; or being murdered or stuck in a cage or being a prisoner in their own homes. The information in this book will also help women not to wallow in their past mistakes; and be able to see warning signs so they won’t overlook them; this book will serve as guidance to women that when they communicate it keeps them from procrastination and from suffering many painful regrets.
About the Author
I am from Mississippi. At the age of 16, I found myself on my own after my mother’s death with no job, just working on a farm. There was one family that I will never forget. Their last name was Baskins; they were there for me when my mother passed away. I married at the age of 20 and after three years of marriage; I was forced to move. What was so amazing to Gail (my great niece) is that I left Mississippi with three shirts, a pair of pants, and the shoes on my feet, oh and I only had five dollars in my pocket. I traveled to California and even played some semi-professional baseball but I never forgot about my family. Now as a young man I didn’t always believe in God but I always knew that there is a God. Now I know that it was God that made it possible to re-unite me with my family and bring them to New Jersey. There were 15 of us living in a five room apartment in 1965. God brought us through and has kept us as a family every since. Currently I am an ordained Minister. I have been preaching since 1983.