A Black Man's Worth

Everybody is having sex but nobody is making love

Every body is having sex but nobody is making love. Nowadays lust is out weighing love on the balance scale. More and more people are accepting open relationships and casual sex as if it’s not a problem.  Music is controlling everything in this modern day and age.  These new rappers & singers are only talking about sex, money, drugs, and violence. We understand that lifestyle by now but it’s time for something new. See hip hop has the power to make loving another human being cool. In this new generation most of the young men want to be thugs, pimps, players, and gangsters.  Not too many of them want to be lovers.  Music is powerful because it sets the emotional tone of its listeners and most people listen to music all day. At work, going and coming from work in the car, while they work out in the gym, at parties, cook outs, and even while people sleep.  Music is a big part of our lives whether we are conscious of it or not and no I didn’t forget to mention while having sex.  Unfortunately I can’t say while making love because that’s not what most people are doing.  Men nowadays are having sex with multiple of promiscuous females without using a condom as if A.I.DS doesn’t exist. On the other hand more and more undercover whores are walking around with positive attitudes thinking just because they go to church on Sunday they can be loose and promiscuous during the week.  It’s hard to spot them these days. They can look as innocent as a librarian with glasses and they don’t even have to dress freaky or anything.  However it’s easy for a pretty, paid, or popular man to have sex with a lot of women without using a condom because there are females in the world that are trying to have their babies and trap them.  However, nowadays a lot of those types of women just end up catching an STD instead of getting pregnant.  Majority of men do not take pride in their penises.  Most men will have sex with almost any female and even with another man. It doesn’t matter if the man is a so called educated romantic gentleman that wears a suit everyday to work. Just because a man has good credit doesn’t mean he has a good heart. There are a lot of attractive evil people out there. So don’t let the smooth taste fool you. Usually the best tasting things in life is not good for you.  Candy, sex, this, and that.  It’s the bad tasting stuff that makes us well, Vitamins, vegetables, working out, taking time to pray and so forth. The prettiest snakes are the most poisonous.   It’s time to wake up.  They will even molest an under age child if they can get away with it.  Nowadays most men penises run their lives. It’s almost like they worship their penises indirectly.  See a man can’t expect to get with a real virtuous woman by putting so much emphasize on his penis.  A penis is a gift from God but how valuable is it if any woman that is willing to open her legs can have it.  A real man doesn’t base his worth on his penis, financial status, or image.  A real man bases his worth on his heart, soul, and spirit.  On the other hand a real woman doesn’t base her worth on bootie, beauty, tattoos, and hair styles.  A woman should attract a man because of her heart and mind.  It’s nothing wrong with being beautiful as long as you are beautiful inside as well.  However, nowadays most attractive people are only filled inside with worms instead of love and wisdom. This evil ignorance has to end now.  By working together with true love like the ants that King Solomon spoke about in Proverbs we can make this world a better place for the next generation.  We have to stop selling our souls to the devil for money, power, and beauty. If a family member or so called friend base your worth by your money, beauty, or status then they are fake, which clearly means that they don’t have you in their best interest.  Money and power can change in one day but only God can change a person’s heart and mind. True love is unconditional regardless of money and looks.  A lot of people are not patient enough to get to truly know another person and they are not asking the right questi