As I seek, I am always finding patterns and connections to help me determine how we are interacting with one another, and how our interactions are evolving us as people. I would like to explain and examine the different relationships I have found that we have with people. Although we have not heard people discuss the following, I have witnessed myself and everyone I know interacting on these different relationship levels with one another. There is a unique filing system (a way of categorizing and keeping up with everyone and what they are here to do in this particular skin they are in) a birth order that has been set up. We have all been put here for a purpose and reason. If Matthew 10:30 can tell us the very hairs of our head are numbered, you can bet there is no chaotic placing of people on this earth. God knows were each one of us is, the month we were born in, the date, the year, the time and the element we were born in, therefore God knows each persons purpose and how to draw us to one another, and repel us from one another when that is needed. There are those put here on earth to aid each one in our journey and divine purpose, just as we are placed here to aid them. How do we find one another? We are attracted to them and them to us. The skin you are in (and I'm not speaking of skin color, but birth order) determines how and what you attract. I think this a stroke of sheer brilliance on Gods part. We never knew what we were doing, and yet we have been participants. The following are the relationships we have with other people whether they are blood related or not. These relations depend upon birth order, when we are born, rather than who or what blood related family we are born into.
Everyday Relationship Interactions we have with other people. Family essence or energy is one relationship we have with others at birth. The term Family Relationship can be described as "a group of people united by certain convictions or a common affiliation: Having fellowship. A family relationship is also a group of things related by common characteristics; a closely related series of elements." There are 12 months in our year; each month starts with a purposeful birth sign. Each one of those 12 signs is categorized in 4 elements or what I like to call element family units. The 4 elements or family units are earth, air, water and fire. Each element has a leader, and organizer and a communicator within that family unit...
...When you find yourself in an interaction with someone that you would not normally have, if there is a pulling beyond your belief system morals or comfort zone that would be a great time to take a conscious interrupt, start by asking yourself: "What's going on here? This is not an interaction I am comfortable with and yet I am feeling drawn to it. Is this some kind of energy I am tangled in?" If you find out that is what it is, unravel yourself by acknowledging the pull is energy. Then name what the energy pull is. Is it a family relationship, student/teacher, tango or strong energy relationship. After you assign the correct energy pull, affirm your core belief system and thank the person for the opportunity to grow, and then walk away from that when it doesn't feel good and goes against your beliefs. You can attract birth time essence that does feel good and is in line with your belief system...
...I have watched myself and others being tangled up in relationships and not knowing how we got there, or why we are still in a relationship that has no boundaries or its just floundering all over the place and neither person knows the purpose of the relationship interaction. What drew us to one another, what keeps drawing us? Should we be friends? It just doesn't feel good to me, and yet I am still in it. Why? What's going on here God? Even in my huge flesh and blood family I can see some members just get along really smoothly while others need a referee when they interact with one another. Some people bring out the best in one person, while others bring out the worst in that same person. If you would like to know a bit more about how you and another person born under a different or same sun, or ascendant sign interact please read on and you can see exactly what you and they both attract and how you might end up forming clicks and groups and why some might get along within the group and why some will not get along and simply just aren't drawn to one another. We must learn to respect the law of attraction. We can all get along when we learn to have a healthy respect for one another's uniqueness.
I would like to interject what happens when two people are in a romantic or married relationship and one of the two attracts birth time essence outside of the relationship that feels good, it doesn't necessarily feel better than the relationship they are already in, it just feels different and like it is a needed interaction. Many times affairs and infidelity are a result of birth time essence pull. It's always good to know what you are around and also what relationship interaction you might be lacking, that way when it does show up you know what it is and can interact in ways that are appropriate and in keeping with relationship commitments you are already engaged in. It's important to feel good when you attract birth time essence. Who wants to be tangled up in energy that destroys themselves and others they care about? No one does. Know what you are attracting and why at all times.