Remedy

What happens when we are having a bad day at work or even at home? We send out a negative attitude and negative energies. Our kids feel it, our spouses, our bosses and if we are totally aware of  it, even we feel what we are doing.

How to correct it and stay on the right path is the challenging part. It is ever so easy to become negative and stay negative without caring about the next person or their feelings, and about how they care about us. It is up to each and every one of us as to what "type" of person we want to be. Can we deal with people on a daily basis?

Can we stay focused on one project at a time? Or can we handle several projects going on at once? You have to seriously ask yourself these questions, because when we get  to open our own businesses or get out into the working world, we will be faced with these types of issues.

I know for myself, being out in the working world, there are so many different backgrounds, and ethnicities that I had to nurture my own inner-self to be compatible with all folks. I am happy for the fact however, that I was not raised in a prejudiced environment.

My mother was the one who taught us all how to get along with everyone no matter what race, age or sex. That was and still is a magnificent quality that I still possess to this day. But just how do we deal with those "hard headed" type of people who won't take no for an answer, or even those we have to deal with that we just don't "click" with?

I know for me, even putting on a fake smile got me through the toughest times. I used to have a really big mouth, and that got me into allot of trouble. I was fired from at least two jobs, and I said: "Hey, at least I got my point across and my opinion."

The funny thing about listening is that it never stops. For some we may "appear" to be listening to some important information or that of a boss or something, but the truth of the matter is that the information or whatever somebody is talking about is really going into one ear and out the other.

Just what does make a "good listener" and how do we come to acknowledge this if we were never that before? Take in for an example the inner part of your ear. What goes in, and what goes out will definitely go out. I can remember a very crucial point in my life as to where I thought that I knew almost everything.

You could not tell me anything different. The sad part about not energizing yourself to believe and focus these inner-thoughts along with sound is that we can become very side-tracked and confused.