Designing Infidelity

Introduction

Affairs are like snowflakes; no two are the same…….nor do they last forever.

Having an affair is not rocket science; it’s merely a matter of the heart, your heart.

There is no justifying an affair in the eyes of our traditionalized society or in the eyes of your partner.  You are the only one who can justify infidelity in your marriage or relationship.  Your reasons are what they are, be it mental or physical stimulation, mid life crisis, the need for rockets red glare, desire, lust, passion, intrigue, mystery, sexual addiction or an entirely different reason.  Your affair is your own.

If you are casually or seriously contemplating having an affair or already involved in one, there are a considerable number of ways to cover those proverbial tracks.

It is this author’s opinion, that nothing is fool proof or guaranteed.  We can only be as careful as we can so that we don’t get caught and no one gets hurt.

The next few chapters outline the do’s and don’ts and in no way condemns or condones the reasons for your affair.  Whatever has led you down this road, you’re here, so proceed with caution.