Confronting the Other Woman
A True Story Of Life inside Adultery A Guide Through Infidelity For Women
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When a woman agrees to be the other woman, she has taken an emotional oath of deception. She has released all rights to be in control of her own intimacy. She is now a willing victim. A woman in this position can never be underestimated. She realizes that in order to maintain her status, she must always be willing to accept STOLEN affection with no real promise of commitment. A wife must always be aware of any woman trying to befriend her husband. Also, friendships with females that began before he met you should be discussed. Some women will still desire the continuance of a friendship relationship with a man after he is married. If a husband has such a relationship, he should immediately personally introduce his wife to his female friend(s) so there will be fewer suspicions. Well, you might say the wife needs to get over her obvious insecurities. My response to that is simply women know women. The attitude of the other female will eventually prove her sincerity or lack thereof. Also, if a husband has a female friend from the past and does not chose to introduce her to his wife, the friendship should be discontinued immediately. Females of the past must learn to respect the union of marriage. They are wrong to try and override and interfere with the marital relationship of their now married friend in order to hold onto a few past emotions and good times. The appearance of wanting to continue to be “just friends” can seem innocent on the surface but is actually the females way of keeping her smelly foot in the door just in case he needs her shoulder to cry on. This causes the husband to find fault in his own wife using the excuse she never listens to him in order to justify holding onto the female friend who he will say is the only person that he can talk too. Ultimately, if both spouses have sought another member of the opposite sex to always resort to they will have no emotional need for each other. However, some women have actually settled for holding the “willing victim” title and will develop friendships with married couples for the sole purpose of seeking out weaknesses in the relationship. Old folks have a name (Miss Nice and Nasty)
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What if the opportunity of validating suspicion concerning adultery was possible? What if speaking to the “other” woman could actually take place? Sharing top rank with financial strain and demise, infidelity is still the number one cause of family destruction and divorce. Similar to narcotic obsession and addiction, it can go unnoticed for many years. However, the victim though often suspicious rarely has the solid evidence and or opportunity to validate the act. As the former wife of an adulterous spouse, I can say with the utmost conviction that it was without a doubt being able to conclude my suspicion and confront the intruders brought into my relationship that literally saved my life.
About the Author
Gina “J.P”. Spraggins M.A. is a school counselor in the city of