Finding Your Perfect Partner

The truth is:

There are healthy, single, available, vibrant people of both sexes out there

You can learn to find and attract them

There is no such thing as being too picky- well, maybe there is, but we’ll discuss that later

You do not have to be alone for the rest of your life

You do not have to wait years for the right person to show up

You do not have to “settle”

There are skills and behaviors that can make you attract potential partners

I will teach you the skills and behavior. It’s easier than you think. And No, you don’t have to completely change who you are.

But first, you have to believe. Believe that you have the capacity within yourself to be a loving, caring, dynamic partner. Believe that love will happen to you.

At this point in Peter Pan, Tinker Bell would step out and ask if you believe in fairies. Here is your time to state clearly and boldly, “I do believe that I can and I will find love with the perfect partner.”

Having convinced yourself that there are abundant numbers of partners out there, the next step you must take in order to be successful at dating is to come “out in the open” and make finding the right partner . . .

A Project.

You need to go on Partner-Project status. It’s not just going to happen.  If you’re looking for love in all the wrong places, you’re not going to find it. If you keep on doing what you’ve always done, you’ll keep on having what you’ve always had.

So ask yourself:

Do I really want to have a relationship right now?

Am I willing to tell my friends, family and co-workers that I’m looking for my true love?

And if I can’t do that, why can’t I?

Did you know that being ashamed is the #1 factor that sabotages people’s dreams of finding a partner? Now is the time to change your thinking and direction. If you just sit at home and do nothing, waiting for Prince Charming or Cindy Crawford to knock on your door, nothing will happen. To change your life you must take action.

Fact: Fifty % of singles still meet other singles through friends and family. Therefore, you’re going to have to let them know you’re looking.

Not choosing is a choice. Is it yours? Getting into action and really managing your life means that you stop living in Re-action and start becoming Pro-active.

You are starting a new project  . . . a Partner Project!

Like any other project you need to

1.  Commit to putting the time into making it succeed

2.  Prioritize it above other activities

3.  Give it thought, time and energy every day