TOO MACHO FOR THAT

“What about me Anessa? What about my needs huh?”

“What about you?  Why does this relationship have to be about you, and your damn needs. I have needs to you know, but of course you wouldn’t know because you are never around, and now you have needs! F--- your needs!

“You know, I had a nice time with Luis. He made me laugh; he treated me like I was special. Something you have never done. You men get on my damn nerves. You always want from us, and as soon as we start talking about marriage, or some kind of commitment, then you think we are expecting too much. Well don’t you think you’re expecting too much from us, when we have to clean your dirty drawers, pick up behind your sorry asses, cater to you when you''re hungry, go to work for eight hours, and then have to come home to the same shit.

I feel sorry for the women who have children by these men who say they don’t want to get married, their too scared, or they have to get themselves together first. Why is it that we women always have to wait until you get yourselves together, Why can’t we get it together being together?”

You men take us through a whole lot of crap and still want pussy. We are human just like you are, we get tired, and we are not robots. You men just push us to the side and then wonder why we cheat on you or find other interest. You all have the habit of saying do what makes you happy, and then when we do, you accuse us of seeing someone else. We can’t even change ourselves for the better without you men thinking that someone else is in our lives. Are we not allowed, to love ourselves? Hell if we based our lives on waiting for you men, we will never find ourselves. Yes Paco we have to change, because this relationship that we have, is not what I want!”