The view I believe most people
have of inmates is that they had committed a crime against humanity and they
deserve all that they get from our judicial system. As the inmates would put it, “You do the crime, you do the
time.” Often times once they are incarcerated
they are forgotten by the public and in some cases their friends and family,
unless they do something additional that becomes noticeable or alarming.
My endeavor in writing this book
is to get the reader and the public to look at these men and women in a
different light. We need to begin to
see them as God sees them - sinners for whom Christ died. I have found many, especially those in their
late teens and early twenties, seeking a way to live a purposeful life and a
way to become an asset to society rather then a liability. As Dr. James Dobson
stated in his March, 2002 letter, quoting from the “Code Blue” Report of 1990,
“Never before has one generation of American teenagers been less healthy, less
cared for, or less prepared for life.”
He further states that “This is occurring, in one of the most affluent
and privileged nations in the history of the world. It is a direct result of marital disintegration and related
forces at work amongst the family.”
To show the importance the role
of a Father plays in the life of their children, especially their sons, allow
me to show you two letters written by two young men, whose names will not be
used, to their dads in the endeavor of releasing some of their anger toward
their dads.
“To my Dad:
I really don’t know how to start
this letter. But I guess we can start
like this; I love you , but I hate you too. I love you for being my Dad, but if
you think about it, where were you when I needed a dad? I can tell you, you were either with one of
your girl friends or picking up the other kids and leaving me behind. Dad you weren’t there when I needed a dad to
talk to. Dad, what did I do so wrong
for you walking away from me? You beat
the hell out of me, and like a fool, I still loved you. When you weren’t there, I looked for other
ways to see if I could just get you to notice me. Yes, dad that even meant getting into trouble. I’m not saying that my being in jail is your
fault, but me not having a Dad really doesn’t help me. Dad, God said it is a sin to hate. Well, dad, tell me what I should do? I could divorce you as my dad, but really
what would that solve? (My sister) sent
me a picture of me and you together. I am about 1½, maybe 2 years old. Dad that is the only picture I have of us
together. We look so happy. What happened to that feeling? I really do miss it. She really wants me and
you to have a bond. How many times have you held your grand-daughter? Dad that would mean the world to me, if
Sammie would know her grandpa. Well,
Dad sorry to send this letter, but I
have to call my daughter and tell her how much I love her and how much she
means to me.