Touching Lives
Heartfelt Stories of Lives, Losses and A Failing System
by
Book Details
About the Book
In conclusion of this book, I would hope that the
reader has enjoyed the opportunity of learning the various cultures and the
similarities of all families.
Again, I would like to reiterate the fact that crime
is a traumatic experience to both families of victims and the families of
victims turned perpetrators. It is a
tragedy when a victim of a crime cannot express their pain due to the traumas
of humility, fear, guilt and perhaps, other various psychological reasons.
Unfortunately, victims try to block out the ill
treatment that they receive in their earlier years of life. As I say they try to forget although it is
always in the back of their minds. They
desperately seek out someone they feel they can trust. If that isn't possible they revert to
suicides or homicides.
In many cases they enter into relationships where
they believe that they have found the right person and they ultimately
disclose. However, relationships are
not always what they are cut out to be.
Some men and women when falling in love are sincere in their
feelings. On the other hand some are
what they call unstable, inconsistent or flirtatious. A heart is not to be tampered with especially when it has been
broken, too many times before.
It is very difficult for a family to forgive if they
have lost a loved one. However, in
reading “Touching Lives” I only hope that one can understand the two sides of
inner pain and attempt to seek out more appropriate means of closure other than
revenge. Understanding the anger or
pain of one who has lost a family member is however easier to accept than to
perceive the vengefulness of a stranger.
Many people in society create more pain to grieving families just by the
repetitious and ongoing accounts of the tragedies. Furthermore, if the news catches the public's attention in a big
way, the media will carry it on for months and maybe longer.
There are various organizations established around
the country to assist prisoners and families of victims in the mediation
process in order to get a clearer sense of all the unresolved questions and
answers leading up to the fatality.
However, the media and the populace need to allow this to occur in order
for a positive change in society.
Once a prisoner is sentenced to life without parole
they have lost everything-- their families, their freedom, their esteem and all
friends. Once in prison they are
punished more. They become “caged
animals” only to become more hardened in their hearts. The majority of prisoners were once victims
who finally vented all internal pain and anger out on another human being. Unfortunately, they exploded at the wrong
time, with the wrong person. Had the
person been the one who initially traumatized them it may have been somewhat
justified.
The Legal System needs to be reformed in order for a
peaceful society. Placing human beings
behind bars forever is not an appropriate solution nor is the death
penalty. Encouraging people in the
communities to become involved and more appropriately overseeing of the prisons
and its activities may result in a better future for all concerned.
About the Author
Born Leonna Anne Abraham-Brandao, on January
20,1947, to a Lebanese and an African American couple in a small town on Cape
Cod, in Massachusetts. She was the
oldest girl of nine siblings and she graduated from the Barnstable School
system in June of 1965. She furthered
her education years later, at the Fisher Jr. College, Cape Cod Community
College and the University of Massachusetts.
A Former Social Worker of fourteen years with the
State of Massachusetts, and whose studies included Community and Public
Services, Ms. Abraham-Brandao utilized her services in the field of Social
Work, revolving around families, children and adolescents. She, further, spent years of devotion to the
understanding of the rise and fall of problematic individuals, and approaches
to the resolutions of conflict. As a
single-parent of one child, she was able to assist her son with the completion
of his four year college education. Following
her own family tragedy, she was placed in a position, as many families, who
suffered an overwhelming loss. She
subsequently, decided to travel in order to broaden her views on cultures and
behaviors. She attended a Mayan Indian
School “Centro Maya De Idiomas “, in the mountains of Quetzeltenango,
Guatemala, Central America, and studied the language and culture of the Mayan
Indians.
Following her six month stay there, she traveled to
EI Salvador, Honduras, Nicaragua, Costa Rica, and Panama, meeting new friends
and regaining personal recognition of herself.
She ultimately, moved to Ghana, West Africa, where she founded the “New
Vision Organization” which provided services to the medically ill individuals,
in the regions of Ghana.
Leonna , ultimately, returned to the States in 1996, where
she continued to work in
the Health Care Profession, and as an advocate for
prison Reform. In the year 2002, Leonna
decided to put her writing skills to use in her Literary works on Prison Issues
around the country.
She firmly believes that Prisoners can be saved
through extensive rehabilitation, as in the past, with many successful
releases. It is said, that some of the
best Counselors in the field, are those who have experienced the same set back,
as those, whom they counsel, and they have been able to overcome their inner
conflicts.
It is also the Author's hope to bring awareness to
the Reader, of the need for changes within the Churches. It has been a long overdue need that
Churches throughout the World remain open to God’s children on a daily basis in
order that the lost flock may enter when they are at their lowest peak and in
Spiritual pain.