Exploring Sex, Love and Lust

You can get behind the wheel of a car, and the more miles you drive, the more skilled you become. However, we all run into a problem from time-to-time. From unintentionally driving the wrong way on a one-way street to running out of fuel, it happens to the best of us. If something mechanical or electrical breaks down, we go to a mechanic to put it right. Sadly, there’s nobody like that in our bedroom! Sure, we can call our family physician or a specialist, like a gynecologist or urologist, for advice or a cure if the problem requires medical attention, but where can we learn what the best lovers do? How can we anticipate problems and either avoid or overcome them without discussing them with our dubiously knowledgeable friends? This is where the experts have the answers. Their multitude of studies and surveys, in all things sexual, bring the science and solutions to our aid. In my research, I have made friends with many highly-qualified and communicative professionals of both sexes who have helped me put this book together. When things aren’t quite right, we look for answers. This is how I began a journey of discovery about sex and all its driving forces. Through these pages, you can share this journey with me. As I’ve said before, we're all different. This theme runs throughout this book. As an example, not everyone wants to learn about anal sex, and that’s understandable. In case you might be curious though, this topic and many other sexual activities are covered. You may already enjoy oral sex, cunnilingus and/or fellatio, (better known by many as “giving head” or “giving a blow job”), but it’s always worth listening to how other people have increased their skills and how both partners can heighten their enjoyment. It goes without saying, the female orgasm is a fascinating subject. By the end of this book, you will discover the many ways female orgasm can be achieved, the difference between clitoral and vaginal orgasm, and how to stimulate each. You'll even learn how to work up to female ejaculation – better known as squirting. Every woman can give a different description of how an orgasm feels. As we go through life, our circumstances change – physiologically, psychologically and sexually – and not always for the better. Recognizing where you are in this scenario is key. Knowing you’re not alone and your perceived problem is usually a lot more common than you thought really helps. Take premature ejaculation (cumming too quickly) as an example. You will read how this originated and ways to take control over peaking too soon. Erectile dysfunction, also known as ED, (the inability to get or maintain a hard erection) is a problem that affects all men at some time in their life, which results in disappointment and frustration. It can even lead to the break-up of relationships. The warning signs and situations that lead to ED are described, and solutions are provided beyond simply Viagra! Size is discussed, along with the opinions of men and women on the topic of size. If a man wants to increase his size, guidelines are given, along with options on how to increase your size. In regards to women, we discuss breasts and their size and shape, as well as what surveys show about our feelings about them. We talk about nipples, vulvas, the clitoris, labia, vaginas, and body hair. Penises, large and small, testicles and scrotum, and the volume of semen are also discussed in detail. This book is no holds barred on all topics concerning sex. A description of the G-spot and how to stimulate it, as well as the location of the A-spot and three ways to reach it, are described. The presence and use of pornography is discussed, including its effect on us and its pros and cons. You’ll read about communication and the part hormones play in our desires, actions and reactions. You'll learn how to develop skills in conveying what you desire and triggering those same desires in your partner, from how to use your eyes to how to say the right things to touch and smell. We'll even introduce you to cyberspace! You'll learn how to develop those muscles to keep us in good physical shape for sex and how to keep it up well into old age. You'll discover the best positions for maximum penetration, stimulation or pure enjoyment, depending on your age, location and opportunity. Whether you're just beginning to build your sexual history, busy raising a family or in the golden years of retirement, you'll learn the hows and whys of the best sex for every stage of your life. From mutual masturbation to full-blown sex, this book will have the sexual revelation you’ve been seeking!