Never before has a story like this been told. Until now gender diverse/ transgender children did not see themselves or their family stories reflected in their books. Most children's books reinforce traditional gender roles where girls wear pink and boys play with trucks; however, one has to search for the stories where children can simply be themselves, wear what they want, play with what they want and express all aspects of themselves completely. The shift is happening in homes around the world where traditional gender roles are less important. Boys are allowed to enjoy their dolls and girls are encouraged to don superhero costumes now more than ever in history. Be Who You Are is a natural expression of this change, a perfect opportunity for the reader to peer inside the life of a child who does not identify with their birth gender.
This book was designed to open the hearts and minds of all people on the subject of gender diverse children which includes transgender, gender variant, gender fluid, gender queer and any other identification outside of what is considered traditional gender roles. Despite the recent media attention, gender non-conforming behavior is still vastly misunderstood. The mystery behind gender diverse behavior presents a specific dilemma for our community. At the most basic level children deserve to be able to express themselves honestly without fear, harm or judgment. Families deserve the right to protect and support their children. These assumptions are basic. However, when a child does not follow traditional gender roles these basic rights are put into question. Be Who You Are strives to build a bridge of understanding in a world that is only starting to accept the differences among people.
Be Who You Are lets readers experience Hope's gender awareness and expression as a child who knows herself to be a girl despite being born in a boy's body. Hope's family plays a critical role in the story as they come to terms with and accept Hope's decision to transition from being labeled as a boy to living as herself, a girl. Although Be Who You Are tells one child's story, it speaks to all children who face difficulties at school, with friends and even family who don't understand. Hope creates a language that other children and adults can relate to when discussing her expression. By talking with the people who support her such as her therapist, her parents and other kids who feel the same way, Hope gains the courage to be true to herself every day.
Be Who You Are creates a dialogue where gender identity can be explored, expressed and understood. For families, Hope's story reinforces that they are not alone. Their stories are worth telling. Their successes are worth celebrating. There is an abundant network of families and resources around the world that will listen, share and help provide every child with the freedom of expression they deserve.
As an educational tool, Be Who You Are is being used in schools, organizations, churches and caregiving facilities to raise awareness of gender diversity of all kinds. Anyone who works with or is around children needs this book. By telling this story, allies are being made around the world, not only for gender diverse children, but for every person who strives to live their life authentically. Greater understanding of the differences between people can only lead to a more harmonious existence for all. Fear does not have to stand between people. Fear does not have to lead to bullying or abusive behavior. Fear does not have the power to save lives and families, but knowledge does have the power to dispel fear. Be Who You Are encourages us to let love open the doors of understanding.