Benjamin Butler was born in the afternoon of
November 5, 1818, in Deerfield, New Hampshire, the youngest of three children
of John and Charlotte Ellison Butler.
Benjamin’s father died of yellow fever when he was five months old,
leaving the young infant fatherless.
Benjamin, described as small and sickly at birth, disfigured with a
drooping eyelid and a severe case of strabismus or being “crossed eyed,” in
time would come to count on his older brother Andrew, who served as a
substitute father. A lasting bond
between the two brothers developed. The
trust they had for one another would reach new heights when the pair traveled
south to New Orleans in 1862.
Benjamin’s younger years were a mixture of anxiety
and contentment for his mother, who after the sudden death of her husband was
saddled with raising three children alone.
Young Benjamin’s health, his sickly appearance, more than anything else,
caused his mother much apprehension.
Benjamin could do little to improve the body he was given, but he
compensated in other ways. He immersed
himself in reading, having had his mother teach him his letters by age
four. He quickly developed an appetite
for literature and the wide vocabulary it gave him. Butler’s later abilities to articulate his viewpoint, reason, and
to think can be attributed to the strong educational foundation he received as
a youth while attending several common schools, the Academy of Exeter, a
college preparatory school, and later Lowell (Massachusetts) High School. (A
clergyman, who had befriended Butler’s mother, built a house for her in Lowell
during the late 1820s, the same time period that Butler attended Exeter. Butler
spent time in Lowell between terms and eventually enrolled in Lowell High
School beginning in December 1830. At that high school Butler finished his
college preparatory work.)
His knowledge more than compensated for his facial
abnormalities and general appearance, features that often left him in social
isolation. When teased as a boy for his
odd look and mannerisms, Butler would strike back at his adversaries with a
barrage of verbal epithets, articulated in such a matter, that it often left
them speechless or powerless to respond.
However, on occasion, he was not above the use of brute force to make
his feelings known. At Exeter, when
called “a little cockeyed devil” by an upper classmate, Butler struck the lad
with a stick. His command of the
English language would serve him well later in the political world as a lawyer
and master politician.
After completing his studies at Lowell High School,
Ben Butler, at first had aspirations of being educated at West Point. His
mother attempted to solicit two congressmen at different times to give Benjamin
an appointment to the military academy.
Lack of political connections and his mother’s lack of social standing,
in spite of her late husband’s military career with Andrew Jackson, doomed any
chances of a military career for Benjamin.
Whether he would have been accepted if appointed was
uncertain. His overall physique at age
sixteen, “small in stature, health infirm, of fair completion, and reddish
brown hair,” still left much to be desired and likely would lead to his
disqualification. This early
disappointment would teach Butler a valuable lesson. Political influence was a must if one was to achieve any station
in life.
Having been passed over at West Point, Benjamin
attended Waterville College, a Baptist school at Waterville, Maine. His mother wanted him to become a
minister. Benjamin was well versed in
Old and New Testament scriptures, having been indoctrinated with Bible study at
an early age by his mother, “a religious woman of the strictest sect of
Calvin,” according to Butler. Benjamin
went, not to become a minister, but rather to receive an education and the
degree. Almost from the beginning of
his studies, Butler felt himself above the rest. “Unfortunately, I had a much higher standard as to clergymen than
they had, and I observed all their shortcomings and outgoings,” commented
Butler on the school.
His ego at sixteen, his first year at the college,
was emerging and continued to grow throughout his four years there. Butler’s graduation from Waterville in the
summer of 1838 could not have come any sooner for his professors, who, no
doubt, had had their fill of Benjamin’s superior intellect. In a sense, the frustration they felt toward
Butler was of their own making. They asked for it. “At the close of each discourse, the lecturer invited the class
to offer objections,” James Parton, Butler’s biographer wrote in 1863. “Young Butler seized the opportunity with
alacrity, and plied the doctor hard with the usual arguments employed by
heterodox.” Butler’s augmentative style
brought him few admirers among the faculty.
“[It] was touch-in-go whether he could be permitted to graduate at all,”
Parton wrote, commenting on Butler’s perceived status among the faculty as a
“rebel.” Of course, he did graduate.
The president of Waterville College, no doubt, realized the folly of obstructing
Butler’s progress.