We need to talk ladies. For many years, men were aloud to get away with playing around on a woman. Then he justifies the action, you take him back, then you go after the female he is playing around with. It is time to change the cycle. Women fight over their men, destroy property over their men, even kill over their men, and for what purpose? He wasn’t that great in the first place. If he was, then he wouldn’t have placed you in that position in the first place. Did you get what I just said? “HE WOULDN’T HAVE PLACED YOU IN THAT POSITION IN THE FIRST PLACE IF HE WAS SO GREAT!” You need to play that phrase over and over again in your mind until you get the picture. After all, if your man is playing around on you, you need to take a good long look at the situation and make a decision (staying with him isn’t the answer).
He cries, he says he is sorry, he says he won’t do it again. You feel sorry for him, and the next thing you know some months later, he is playing around on you again. Only this time a baby was made with the other relationship. So what are you going to do, go after the other woman? If your answer is yes, then my question to you is why? Did the other woman stalk the both of you? Did the other woman put a gun to his head and say “Be with me”? Is this the first time you’ve seen this woman before? Take a good look at this situation. I say leave the other woman alone. Your man was the one who stepped out on you, he is the one who betrayed your trust, and he is the one who wanted to be taken. What I have just said makes a lot of sense. Remember that a man can’t be taken from a relationship unless he wants to be taken. When your man does this to you, you look like an idiot fighting over your man who doesn’t want you any more.
I guess it is a woman’s nature that women act the way they do. Love can make you do some stupid shit (all of us need to use our heads). This is why you have to rule with your mind. You the female, have got to stop convincing yourself that you love your man so much, till you let him run over you. Remember these words: BEING IN LOVE DOESN’T HAVE TO MEAN BEING STUPID. These are words to live by. It is important that you listen to them when you recite them to yourself. If your man is playing around it is time to leave him! He isn’t going to stop with one, and you know that! So why keep putting yourself in heavy misery? He will say he won’t do it again, and he’ll say no baby this, no baby that! It is time to leave him bottom line. Just like if he put his hand on you, it is most defiantly time to go (don’t make him put his hand on you either, you know what I am talking about).
Ladies who are in their 20s, you are still two young to understand, but you really need this advice also. You see, you still have childish ways, and you still can’t think straight. You still want to fight over your man or (he really isn’t your man if you have to fight over him) shall I say boy? He has been making you look like a fool for a long time, and now it is coming out. Have you ever heard your parents say “What is done in the dark, comes out in the light?” That phrase is true. Who ever started that phrase, said a mouthful.
It is true that girls in elementary school start to look at boys, and then if another little girl likes the same boy, then there is a problem. Then you have Junior High School girls (teens), they go for blood. Then High School age (they go for blood too). None of the girls stop to think that they are making themselves look like fools.
