Children who molest children are
society's dark little secret. That's exactly why lay persons, as well as
professionals, should read this chilling portrait of male adolescent sex
offenders. It is an authentic silhouette of their characteristics and conduct
which help the reader, indeed, beware. Daring to peek into this shadowy corner
of histories and anecdotes will result in sharpened insight into predatory
behavior that devastates the innocence of childhood. That insight, fueled by
the information in this book, can help preserve a precious purity.
This personal account gifts the
reader with:
- Thinking errors in male adolescent sex offenders.
- Ways to teach morality to children who have already
committed immoral acts.
- More than 350 myths and faulty beliefs which
adolescent sex offenders act on.
- Cautions to the general public about signs to watch for .
- Details of essential treatment which must be
internalized if the offender is to return to society.
Some information in this book is
probably available in professional journals and books, but not in an anecdotal
style which the author has deliberately adopted to encourage generalized
readership about this serious social issue.
Joyce F. Lakey
is a trained and experienced writer and therapist, with an undergraduate degree
in journalism, and a master's degree in agency counseling. Her many freelance
stories have appeared in the popular press, and she has contributed 17
scholarly articles to professional journals.
This account is based on 15 years
of experience as a therapist with adolescent sex offenders at a residential
facility for male delinquents and two psychiatric hospitals. She intends for
this book to unveil the mysteries surrounding children who molest children and
give the reader a heightened awareness of the character and danger of such
offenders.
The author may be reached
at: joylaura@aol.com
They think excessively and nearly
exclusively of sex, about every 15 seconds of their waking hours, and they
perceive that the most innocent comment or event carries immense sexual
implications. They have experienced
sexuality in ways which shock and revile an ordinary person. Their patterns of lies and manipulation have
led them to assume little or no responsibility for their behavior and
self-appointed exemption from the rules the rest of us choose to follow. The bizarre and damaging behavior of adolescent
male sex offenders knows no boundaries.
A youngster inflicted bite and
sucking wounds over the body of a 17-month-old boy--on his buttocks, upper
thighs, lower abdomen, above and below his genitalia, before nearly biting off
the toddler’s penis. Many tricked small
children into sexual activities with some common and not so common ploys: invitations to play “house” or “doctor,” hide
and seek, truth and dare or spin the bottle.
Pretenses of being able to tell the future by touching intimate parts of
a victim’s body; threats; bribes such as money, toys, sports equipment,
clothes, candy, friendship, outings and cigarettes (an offender complained that
promising cigarettes was just too expensive for the chance to molest) are
common. One of the most outrageous ruses
was that of Loren (more on Loren in Chapter 20) who cautioned his little
victims, “Don’t ever let anyone touch you there,” as he fondled the child’s
private parts.
A boy was so attracted to
buttocks that he stalked girls, approached each one from behind, grabbed her
and pressed her buttocks against his body while clutching her breasts; then he
ran away. Another stole girls’ shoes,
brought them home to masturbate into them in front of his mother and sister,
closely watching their reactions. A third
was deviately aroused by female voices on the phone. After several calls, he was so excited that
he forgot and left his phone number when asked to do so by the female answering
machine voice.